This is how we get ready for school.
This is how we get ready for school.
“You have amazing things ahead of you!”
These were the words spoken to me many years ago. Not just from one person but many. They all said it in their own way and they all said at different times. The baseball coach, basketball coach, the English teacher, the history teacher, the mom, the dad, the swim team coach, the pastor and even friends! I can’t get over how many people have spoken into my life and still do to this day.
When is the last time you looked at someone into their eyes and said, “You have amazing things ahead of you!?” Isn’t it up to us to shine a light on their path to make that possible? Shouldn’t we be hopeful for the future by knowing we have a part to play in it?
Hey, the future of our country and children do not rest solely on them. It’s up to us to plant the seed that will one day grow into something more than we could ever ask or imagine.
According to Nike+ the life of my current running shoes is just about over. On a recent run along a beautiful bike path in Florida, I noticed a harder-than-usual impact on my feet. Thanks to Steve Jobs and the folks at Nike, this is the first time in my life that I have been able to source my shoes’ mileage. My app showed them clocking in at just under 400 miles.
As I ran, I began thinking about the great number of stories these shoes could tell. They would speak of half marathons, the Disney Marathon and unforgettable landscapes in Hawaii and Colorado. They would remember the treadmill on the 28th floor overlooking the Miami cityscape. They would reminisce of sand crabs running back into their holes on a dirt-packed trail in Vero Beach, FL.
Yes, shoes tell great stories.
What would happen if we envisioned what stories our next shoes would tell next? After all, Jesus knew where his sandals were going and Grandma Gatewood was ready to hit the trail before she laced up her Keds. What if I determined where my shoes would take me instead of strapping them on and seeing where they led?
This is your season. Choose your direction and run.
“When you walk, your step will not be hampered; and if you run, you will not stumble.” – Proverbs 4:12
I decided to go for a run just a little while ago. Running has always provided me with an opportunity to pray, yet I’m no marathoner like I want to be. You can take that literally or figuratively.
On this run I apologized to the Lord for thinking about some of my own issues on a day that is really about Him. I turned the corner, walked a block and looked up. The picture on the left is what I saw.
I wish you could have seen it from the angle I first did. It was even better defined then what the photo shows. Then it was gone. We have been here for 5 years and I had never seen that shadow cast before.
It could have been His reminder that today is exactly about my issues. And yours. Or it could have been a reminder that in everything He is with us.
Our kids often ask us if we can see God. I love this question. There are so many scriptures to point to, so many things in life to reference and creations of this world to point to. I love this question because it tells me they are searching for Him. Just yesterday, Nicole was in the elevator at Real Life and Pastor Justin Landrum got in.
“Is that Jesus?” Emma Grace asked. Nicole was somewhat prepared for the embarrassment as we had seen Justin walked past us earlier and Emma Grace shouted “Jesus!”
It is a tough thing for a child to understand the spirit of God. It may be even tougher for an adult to understand. Or maybe we just want Him to physically be with us all of the time; I’m not saying He doesn’t visit with us in that way from time to time.
Do you not know that you are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in you? 1 Corinthians 3:16
I’ve really enjoyed these moments over the last five years when God has personally spoken to me. It seems to be happening more and more lately; or at least I hope it is happening more frequently. Maybe He is not speaking to me more at all. Maybe I am simply a better listener. I am hoping we are all learning to be better listeners. After all, we have a lot of questions but He has even more answers.
Either way in this case, it is what I needed to ‘hear.’ Maybe seeing IS believing.
The righteous lead blameless lives, blessed are their children after them. ~ Proverbs 20:7
This seems like a pretty tall order to Christian dads out there. With pressure from work, the desire to be home, and obligations at church, it can be easy to get to the end of the day and feel inadequate, far from blameless. How can we live out this verse and be a blessing to our children?
Love the Lord. In Matthew 22:37, Jesus quotes Deuteronomy when He says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” When we put God first in our life, all things will flow from that. He has a way of setting our priorities straight.
Love your wife. Ephesians 5:25 says, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” If we truly love our wives this way, our children will see it and emulate it. Our society treats marriage like a disposable commodity. Show your children that you are willing to work to make things right rather than throw them away.
Love your children. Psalm 127:3-4 describes children this way. “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.” Children are our greatest gift from God, to be treasured and raised to know His love. They know our Heavenly Father’s love through the love they receive from us, their earthly fathers.
Love each other. Jesus assures us that “everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another,” in John 13:35. It’s not about how much money we give to church or how often we volunteer. It is found in the honest love that we show for one another, when we help each other, and when we comfort one another. The love that Jesus wants us to demonstrate to our children is found when we pray with a friend or have patience with a cranky child.
Be blameless. This was the difficult part of our opening verse. As men, we want to be blameless before our God and our children but are helpless to do so. This is when we teach our children about repentance and forgiveness. When we are willing to admit our mistakes, we show them that we are not a perfect standard for them to hopelessly strive for. They see that we are children of God, just like they are. We are blameless because we are covered with the perfect righteousness of Jesus, and our children will be blessed to learn that they can come to us, or Him, too.
I sometimes find this is easier said than done. Our 7 year-old, Evan, can be quick to point out why it is someone else’s fault or why they made him do it. My first response is frustration and correction. As I grow in fatherhood I have understood the better approach to be one of patience and pointing out some of my own flaws and how I should blame myself for my actions. However, there is great news, Glory be to God! He loves me and forgives me anyway through the salvation of Christ. We have such a forgiving and loving father. We simply must acknowledge our mistakes, not as our duty, but in love to the one who has given us everlasting life.
As a working father, the time spent with the kids is limited which makes this interaction that much more important.
Here is a recap of our last 10 years (actually 12) and some exciting news for 2011. Have a happy and blessed New Year everyone.